Lately, I’ve seen how many ladies get themselves all messed up in the hands of men they’re not supposed to be with. Misused, taken for granted and dragged into a pool of shame and hurt.
And the question I ask myself is; “doesn’t this lady know how much she is worth?”
And the sad thing is when you ask them why they are still there, they either tell you that they “love” him, or that he is God’s will. Excuse me, God is your Father and He wouldn’t subject you to someone who will hurt and maltreat you, because He himself will not do so to you.
You are a special breed, a daughter of Zion and a child of God. You are worth more than gold, rubies or any precious stone this world presents. You were bought by the blood of Jesus. That’s how much you are worth. But if you do not know these, you will keep suffering under the devil’s control.
So, the question is, what do I do if I am already in this condition?
First, get rid of unhealthy relationships. It may seem hard but if you want to move forward, this is the first way to go about it.
Any relationship that breaks you instead of building you is not healthy for you, and it is not God’s will.
Secondly, get yourself involved with the word of God. The word of God is the template for our lives, it tells us who we are. If you don’t read it, you will remain ignorant. So, read it, proclaim it, believe it and become it.
Thirdly, Trust God and lean not on your own understanding.
Proverbs 3:5 (KJV) says; “Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding”. Many times, it’s the simple fact that we think we know what’s best for ourselves that lands us in unforeseen problems. Trusting God to direct your life saves you from unnecessary pain, because God will always direct you rightly.
The truth is that God can perfect all that concerns you.
Do you trust Him enough?